It’s not easy being a family
Families have it hard in the digital age. The idea of a digital identity exists only for the individual. Even though the idea of a family as an identity has existed long before computing. There have been significant advancements in the methods of identifying and organizing certain digital elements. E-mail messages in Gmail can be organized using labels which allow them to be categorized by more than one classification. Computer users are not given such a luxury. A person can create and use an identity and that identity can be part of a group but, in the real world, a family is more than a group, it’s also an identity.
I’ve been frustrated for some time about the state of family computing. In my house we have a shared computer. We chose to go about using the computer without separate user accounts because creating separate accounts and managing lots of shared data didn’t seem easy. The flaw to this set up showed up most often when my wife and I were using the same browser. We solved that problem by choosing to use different browsers. I use Firefox and my wife uses Flock. The problem didn’t go away. I use Last.fm. I like finding new music but I mostly like listening to my own music. I hate radio. I don’t want to give up control of what I’m listening to. Pandora is a great service but I never fell in love with it because I didn’t feel like I was in control. When I discovered Last.fm a few years ago I liked how their system worked. I downloaded their iTunes plug-in and it simply ran in the background. It noted what music I was listening to and uploaded that information to my account online. If I was ever looking for new music, Last.fm would recommend new stuff based on what it already knew about my listening habits. This was awesome until my daughters got into Hannah Montana. While I was away at work they were listening to their favorite Hannah Montana music at home using the family computer. The fact that the kids were obsessed with Hannah Montana meant that they would ask their mother to play Hannah Montana music at least once every day. All of those songs being played were being sent to my Last.fm account. I found that when I went to Last.fm to look for new music recommendations I was getting some awful crap. It said that Hannah Montana was my favorite artist. Not U2, Tom Waits, Radiohead or Pink Floyd but Hannah F#%@$^g Montana. Needless to say, I was not happy. I removed her from my Last.fm library and turned off the plug-in so not to cause any further damage. This was my introduction to the problems of family computing and, even more so, to the problems of identity and the Internet Family.
I’ve been told that I need to create different accounts on the computer for each user. That way I have my files, folders, settings and preferences and my wife has hers. I thought of this when we first got the computer but the system doesn’t seem set up well for sharing. At least for family sharing. There are all sorts of sharing options on the computer. Sharing certain files, folders, photos, videos or music seems possible but not plausible. The way that the word share is used in family computing seems almost impersonal. It feels like more of a technical definition than the way a family shares anything. Even if I were to create an account for myself and for my wife how would I deal with the children? They don’t actually use the family computer. I’ve set up my old computer with kids games and that machine acts as the kids computer. However, their Hannah Montana music is on the family computer. So, if there are files, folders, photos, videos or music on the family computer which is only used by the kids should I create an account for the kids? Is that a group of individual accounts or should I create one account for the sum of them. Do you see why I’m getting frustrated? I do appreciate all of the files, folders, settings and preferences which make my machine customizable to me. I believe that there are systems in place in computing which have been in place for quite some time now and when those systems were created, today’s needs could not have been imagined.
I know what you’re thinking. Well, not really, it’s just a figure of speech. I’d guess that you’re thinking, “Don’t tell me the problem, tell me the solution.”
My proposed solution is a bit dreamy and less of a solution for today’s technology as it is a solution for the technologies of the future. In order to make sense of it at all, I have to start with something very high level. Something vague.
Identity
What is identity? Wikipedia says that identity is an umbrella term used throughout the social sciences to describe a person’s conception and expression of their individuality or group affiliations. I believe that identity is a balance between two things, how you portray yourself to anything or anyone which you interact with and how anything or anyone defines you. In other words, I believe that your identity is your definition in multiple languages. Your own language and the language of any entity which defines you.
Managing our identities in the real world is something that we learn from a very early age. We learn how to portray ourselves to different individuals or groups and we learn how to modify that portrayal based the on experience we have. Managing our digital identities is not as easy. I would think that technology and the grand network would assist us in managing our identities or possibly improve the idea of identity all together. I believe the difference between real world identity and digital identity is the existence or lack of intelligence and reaction. When I am interacting with anything or anyone I can modify my behavior on the fly, or react, based on the experience and the feedback I’m receiving. Thus, change the way I am portraying my identity and hopefully change the way my identity is being received. It takes the intelligence to know when and how to react and how to modify my identity. In the digital world my identity is not modified in real-time. It doesn’t react to whatever entity is receiving it. Hopefully the future of artificial intelligence will improve upon this flaw.
The concept of digital identity is still young. I plan to continue thinking about it and share my thoughts. I’m fascinated by the idea of improving it and how a better digital identity can improve our experiences. I find myself saying this more and more these days, “An experience which knows me provides me with a better experience”.
There are many facets of digital identity, here are a few which interest me and I expect to share more on in the future:
- Digital Family
- Real World vs Online
- Data Portability
- Layers of Trust
- Relationship Identification
- Identity and the Semantic Web
In researching Digital Identity, I’ve come across some interesting content. Please review it if you’re interested. I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.
